Relationship coach
Who we are
Heather and Benton are both qualified Relationship Coaches who are navigating their own relationship and are passionate about helping other couples do the same.
They are a coaching couple (yes he’s a relationship coach, she’s a relationship and they are a couple) who believe in relationships that are real, honest and vulnerable.
Heather (bad cop) loves authenticity and speaking her truth. She is not afraid to ask tough questions, but is a great listener too.
Benton (good cop) is inspired by introspection and understanding. He is empathetic and always strives to see things from different perspectives.
Their variety of strengths compliment each other beautifully in a couple coaching setting.
Our Love Story
We have known each other for the past 11 years and our relationship has progressed through many levels in that time. For the first 5 years, we were just friends, but there was always a strong connection between us. We shared many a conversation about our struggles both in and out of relationships.
Over the last 6 years, things have changed quite profoundly for us! It was of a ‘casual’ nature at first, but through many challenges and profound realisations our relationship has grown into the deeply connected and committed one that we enjoy today.
We both realised that we weren’t the only couple who struggled with relationships. We wanted others to have what we have. So we both qualified as life and relationship coaches and started PairShaped together.
Why us?
As the saying goes, “Two heads are better than one!”
We are unique in that we are a coaching couple who work only with other couples. What this means for you and your relationship is that you are getting 2 coaches, with their own set of skills and experiences, for the price of one. We have found that couples feel more comfortable working with a couple, as it feels less intimidating and there is no fear of us taking sides.
Let’s face it, couples relate better to couples!
Qualifications
We are both passionate about helping people. To help them we need to understand them first.
We strive to do this in the best way possible by continuing to add relevant skills and certifications to our repertoire.
Benton
Personal Trainer
Life Coach
NLP Practitioner
Relationship Coach
CBT Practitioner
Heather
SoulCollage Facilitator
Life Coach
NLP Practitioner
Relationship Coach
Grief Coach
