Welcome to
Pairshaped Couple Coaching
Just because things are difficult between you and your partner, doesn’t mean that the relationship has to end…
Nothing happens by mistake. You’ve landed here because you’re probably having trouble communicating with your partner and you’re thinking about couples therapy.
Perhaps there is a lack of intimacy or trust and you’re struggling to connect. You may be arguing a lot and can’t seem to resolve the conflict.
Whatever your relationship struggles, we are here to equip you with the tools you need to work through them, without killing one another in the process!
Our Couple Coaching is based on the belief that if both partners can learn to hold space for each other to feel seen, heard and understood; then they can work through just about any issue together.
What our clients say
Who we are
Heather and Benton are both qualified Life and Relationship coaches who are navigating their own relationship and are passionate about helping other couples do the same.
They are a coaching couple (yes they are both coaches and they are a couple) who believe in relationships that are real, honest and vulnerable.
Heather (bad cop) loves authenticity and speaking her truth. She is not afraid to ask tough questions, but is a great listener too.
Benton (good cop) is inspired by introspection and understanding. He is empathetic and always strives to see things from different perspectives.
What we do

Couples Coaching
When challenges arise in a relationship, it’s best to work through them together, as a couple…

Couples Retreats
What better way to take some time out and grow your relationship than by spending a weekend away…

Couples Workshops
Work on your relationship in a comfortable group setting and meet other couples with shared goals…

Online Courses
Learn practical relationship tools and skills from the comfort of your own home and set your own pace…
Latest Posts
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